Live Private Couples Coaching

Crafting the Superior BDSM Relationship

Live Private Coaching for Couples in the BDSM and D/s Arts allows two people (of any gender combination) to be instructed together towards the highest octaves of Loving Dominance & Romantic Submission. The absolute emphasis is on helping two people, the Dominant and the Submissive, to connect as deeply and passionately as possible within the world of BDSM, and create a truly powerful Romantic D/s Relationship.

When it comes to Excellence within Romantic D/s Relationships, Master Arcane teaches couples that ultimately it is all about creating the Best Foundation Possible for a superior experience of life together as Dominant and Submissive.

As The Crow Academy saying goes:

“At The Crow Academy we do not teach people how to be merely functional in their D/s; We teach them how to be EXCEPTIONAL. We do not just teach people how to become a Dominant and a Submissive;
We teach them how to become Finely Tuned Companions.”

At his discretion, Master Arcane accepts applications strictly from couples of any gender combination who seriously desire to become the very best Dominant & Submissive partners that they can possible become with each other. Drawing from his background in Psychology and Life-Coaching to create a uniquely eclectic style of BDSM & D/s Relationship Coaching, few things bring as bright a smile to Master Arcane himself as much as seeing a couple open their eyes in wonder at just how Well-Tuned a Beautiful D/s Relationship can actually be for two people. It is Master Arcane’s genuine pleasure to teach couples how to attain an Outstanding Dominant-Submissive Balance.

Couples Coaching Topics Include:

  • Understanding and Embracing The Basics of a D/s Relationship
  • Achieving Excellent Communication with Each Other
  • How to Deepen the Respective Roles of Dominant & Submissive
  • How to Use D/s to Bring New Heights of Joy into the Relationship
  • Becoming Proficient with Any and All BDSM Toys of the Couples Choosing… Whips, Floggers, Paddles…. You Name It!
  • Bondage Techniques: Beginning through Advanced
  • BDSM SAFETY: Learning Countless Aspects from Every Imaginable Angle (Mental, Physical, and Emotional)
  • Assignments to Complete At Home (given by Master Arcane) to Perfect your D/s with Each Other
  • Private Training (as a couple) in any of the Numerous Specialty Subjects from Master Arcane’s vast repertoire of Classes
  • Deep Exploration of the Personal Role as Dominant or Submissive: What Makes You Unique?
  • Identifying LIMITS and Needs for Both the Dom and the Sub – this is Critical!
  • How to Get Into the D/s Headspace & Understanding it from Inside Yourself (even if it’s brand new for you!)
  • ( Advanced ) Learning to Personalize and Craft Your Own Style of D/s

    — What Does It Mean to become a Fine Dominant?
    — What Fulfills You Most as an Excellent Submissive?

Both people in the couple receive equal time and expert training in all areas requested.


Testimonial from “M.A.”

“Arcane-
Thank you for all of the awesome insight on where to start with L’s and my d/s relationship. To be honest I was really struggling with finding a jumping off point but after reading your email it was much easier to find a starting place for myself, and how to accurately, thoughtfully, and intelligently be L’s Dom. We’ve chosen a name for L and that really has had a massive impact on helping me better understand my relationship to her, and also understand her wants, strengths and desires as the sub. Either way I wanted to take a moment to say thank you because your words as a true “Master” have had a profound effect on me as someone who hopes to be at your level one day. The idea of finding anchors for myself so that I can comfortably get into my Dom headspace have helped greatly, I’ve found that taking time to mediate and calm my thoughts so that I’m ready for that headspace has been extremely useful. That being said, so far so good, and I’m sure L and I will have a great deal to tell you about next time we meet. As you know we’ve been trying to get better and better at this through your teachings, and I know that we both agree that it has helped us in many ways. It has been so good to see L flourish after I give her constructive commands per your suggestion with how you get your own slave to pursue her art, it’s something that I see in L that keeps me striving to be a better Dom in our d/s relationship. Thank you again for the advice, we’ll keep practicing so that we can show you the advancements we’ve made, I’m sure we’ll be seeing you soon! — Best Regards, M.A.”


The Submissive between the two of you will immediately be taught to respond directly to the Dominant of the two of you, singularly and right from the start. This means all BDSM toy use, all verbal techniques, bondage techniques, physical and verbal etiquette, etc, will be demonstrated by Master Arcane and his slave, and you will then immediately try these techniques with your own partner while Master Arcane carefully guides you so that you both achieve the very real thrill, pleasure and connection you came to learn. Master Arcane maintains a literal “Hands-Off” approach, which is to say that while his instructions are crystal clear, each and every Dominant Command taught and / or BDSM Toy shown will be handed to the Dominant within the Couple. Master Arcane will use his own slave to demonstrate and explain all techniques, and then show you how to do the same with each other.

The reason for this is simple: Master Arcane wants the entirety of the Submissive’s experiences to be about what they can and will encounter connecting with their own Dominant in particuar. Master Arcane therefore insures that the Submissive’s expression of Submission is never accidentally misplaced onto him, and rather 100% safely and clearly aimed at their own Dominant partner. Thus, Master Arcane maintains this comfortable-for-all “Hands-Off” approach in regards to the student Dominant’s personal Submissive. Training with Master Arcane is very focused on making the two of you into the best Dominant & Submissive you can possibly become with each other.

It is our pleasure to teach you what you most wish to learn selecting from literally hundreds, if not thousands, of different techniques. Prior to commencing your training we will schedule a complimentary conference call with both of you. This free phone session is required so that your live instruction time with Master Arcane is exceptionally fine-tuned to your personal needs, goals, and desires.

If you feel that you and your partner are ready for this kind of Highly Specialized Attention from an internationally recognized Master, and you are ready to create the Romantic D/s Relationship that you have been Dreaming About, then use the Contact Form below to reach out to Master Arcane and discuss your situation, needs, and arrangements.


Testimonial from “K”

“In the beginning I was afraid and yet, so excited, to finally begin delving into the world of BDSM the understanding of which only came from articles, forums, movies, novels, and websites. Little did I realize I was just scraping the surface. Never would I have thought that someone I had read about on the internet could enrich my relationship so much, but I was wrong. Arcane is incredibly intelligent, knowledgeable about the BDSM life and D/s relationships, plus he is exceedingly respectful to his clients. That is one of the things that hooked me while he was coaching us – his respect for the art form which is BDSM. Through “training” with Arcane I have found that my boyfriend / Master and I’s communication has greatly widened, allowing for us to progress forward with trust and confidence in one another. Art is about communication, beauty, respect, and subjectivity. We have found art in BDSM and BDSM has found the artists in us. Truly, I would recommend anyone to Arcane whether they be newbies or professionals, he has something to offer to everyone. Thank you Arcane for your openness, patience, and respect.” — K.


Live Couples BDSM & D/s Coaching Scheduling Options Include:

  • By-The-Hour Private Couple Coaching Individual Sessions (hourly rate $200)
  • Weekend-Long, Comprehensive Courses (by special arrangement) – Your immersion into 4, 6, or 8 hours of Coaching at Highly Discounted Rates
  • See below for full pricing details

A Weekend of Private Instruction is BY FAR the Superior Option for Couples who want to become Truly Exceptional together as Dominant & Submissive.

The schedule of training is divided into even sessions so that everyone’s learning capacity is at its peak. For example, 8 hours of training would be typically be broken into four 2-hour sessions, a nice amount of time over a weekend. There are breaks for lunch, dinner, etc, and time to recharge between lessons. As Master Arcane takes your progress very seriously, each night he may give you some “homework assignments” to perform when you are back at your hotel with your partner. Needless to say these are certainly the most fun homework assignments you’ll ever have.

Regardless of how much time you book, we will pretty much touch upon, expand, and help you perfect nearly every aspect of your D/s Relationship and BDSM skills. More time means the ability to go deeper into the multiple levels of the Dominant & Submissive experience – Mental, Physical, Emotional. You can have any level of previous experience and we can guarantee that you will improve upon your current situation. We must emphasize that this is strictly for Couples Only, i.e. you must take class with your own Dominant or Submissive partner.

Private Couple Coaching sessions can be Sensual in the extreme between the two of you, but there is no actual sex nor explicitly sexual contact involved in any session. This needs to be made particularly clear to prevent any sort of awkward assumptions and insure the absolute dignity of your instruction. While Master Arcane will teach you many things that will make your own sex life truly amazing, the experience with him is more like learning how to safely perform an extreme sport with an expert to insure that your own experiences together in private are absolutely incredible. Now when the two of you get home on the other hand…..lets just say you will probably find yourselves sexually inspired…. to say the least.


Testimonial from “Lina”

“When I first learned about the Crow Academy I was thrilled at the thought of learning more about BDSM in a way that aligns with my values, and that would infuse my marriage and sex life with exactly what I was looking for: an ever deepening intimate connection to my husband, through a mixture of play, and the thrill of power exchange. After talking to Arcane via Skype, I felt confident that we had found a teacher who gets where we are at, who truly understands the dynamics of a D/s relationship, and who skillfully interweaves this with elements from Tantra, mindfulness and psychotherapy. So we flew down from Canada for a weekend that turned out to be transformational. The program was tailored to our needs and interests, and helped me understand and embrace my own submissive nature more fully, as well as the tremendous potential embedded within the D/s relationship for a more fulfilling life. As Arcane explained it so aptly, the moment I stepped into the submissive role, I felt as if I stepped through the looking glass: everything, including the most mundane tasks, suddenly got charged with a sense of present-moment awareness and enthrallment that felt so “right” that I began to feel that I could live this lifestyle 24/7 – not something I’d ever considered before. Both being the open and disarming personalities they are, Arcane and Daphne together established a safe and professional learning space, which allowed us to get the most out of our time together. They took us under their wings from the evening we arrived until the last night of our stay, when they took us out to a club and showed us a very real, loving BDSM demonstration. I’m truly grateful for the opportunity to learn from them.” — Lina”


While you will need to book your own flights, vehicle and accommodation, The Crow Academy is capable of some assistance with these arrangements and may be able to procure discounts. In addition we can offer general tourism advice for the local area to make the most of your non-classroom times and transform your weekend into a pleasant vacation as well. We also offer a complimentary chaperoned experience to a local BDSM / Fetish club if such an event is occurring during your visit. All such arrangements would be discussed during your initial interview.

Private instruction of this nature is charged at different, discounted rates based on the amount of time you book.
All prices are in U.S. dollars:
• Single Hour, by-the-hour: $200
• $700 for 4 hours of training booked in advance
• $1000 for 6 hours of training booked in advance
• $1200 for 8 hours of training booked in advance
Beyond 8 hours please contact Master Arcane directly to discuss options

Logistics:
• If you meet Master Arcane and slave Daphne in Los Angeles there is an additional fee required to secure the Coaching Venue, a beautiful and extremely well equipped “Dungeon” in the Los Angeles area where we are all assured absolute privacy ($60/hr paid to the venue owner).
• If Master Arcane and slave Daphne fly to your city, you must cover the cost of one hotel room and airfare for both Master Arcane and slave Daphne, as well as secure a venue for instruction which must be at least one, quiet, private room able to comfortably seat four people (the two of you, Master Arcane and slave Daphne). This facility in your city can be anything from a simple room in a home, to a fully decorated professional “Dungeon” depending on what you have available in your area. You will have to provide or have access to any toys you wish to learn how to use, and rope for instruction in bondage techniques. If you join Master Arcane on the complimentary Guided BDSM Shopping Experience you will be carefully shown how to select quality gear (given such shops are to be found in your area). Alternatively, Master Arcane can consult with you via Skype to help you locate quality gear before his arrival, an additional complimentary service included with your Live Coaching.

If you feel that you and your partner are ready for this kind of Highly Specialized Attention from an internationally recognized Master, and you are ready to create the D/s Relationship that you have been Dreaming About, then use the CONTACT FORM to reach out to Master Arcane and confidentially discuss your situation, needs, and arrangements.

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